A questionable bounce. An ambitious smash. A score that seemed friendlier five minutes ago. Suddenly, you are playing the previous point instead of the current one.
Keeping your cool does not mean caring less. It means choosing where to put your attention. The snake on the badge is a reminder to be deliberate — not a licence to hiss at everyone within racket range.
Separate what happened from the story.
“I put that volley into the net” describes an event. “I cannot volley today” predicts the rest of your evening. Stay with the first version. It gives you a specific moment to learn from without turning one error into an identity.
You can be annoyed. You can also decide not to build your entire next point around proving that the last one was unfair.
Choose a small reset.
Between points, try a simple sequence: release your grip, take an unhurried breath, confirm the score and choose one intention. Keep it brief and respect the pace and rules of play.
Your intention might be “call early”, “watch the contact” or “give this shot more margin”. Pick something you can actually do. “Win the next five points” is an outcome, not an instruction.
Do not turn frustration into a shot selection.
A spectacular winner is tempting when you want to erase an ugly error. Before trying it, ask whether the ball and your position offer that opportunity. If you would not choose the shot at a calm moment, irritation is probably not a better coach.
Sometimes the useful choice is a straightforward ball and time to recover position. This is not surrender. It is refusing to let your mood write your tactics.
Keep the rivalry friendly.
When the score is disputed, clarify it calmly using the event’s agreed procedure. If you cannot resolve it, involve the organiser where one is available. Sarcasm belongs in the post-match story, not in a personal attack.
Try it next time: choose a reset word before play. “Next” is enough. Use it after a frustrating point, then give yourself one concrete task.
The crown is a metaphor. How you treat the other three players is real.
An original SERPADEL Journal editorial. These are ideas to try in recreational play, not a promise of improved results.
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